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]]> By: Lauren http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-21463 Lauren Tue, 01 Jun 2010 12:33:47 +0000 http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-21463 I also have to say that I can relate to barry's words. I have been in a relationship for 6 years. Last year my family's lives suffered intense tragedy and this affected my life and my relationship to a GREAT extent. And only in those darkest moments, when life puts your relationship on the rocks and tests it to the limit, do you relise how much love is NOT enough. And you become exceptionally grateful for the 'luck' (or grace) and the fact that you and your partner 'click' - COUPLED with hard work, committment and devotion - that carries your relationship through. The hard work, committment and devotion is sometimes (sadly) just not enough. Without that inner 'click' or 'luck' or 'grace' - whatever you want to call it... my partner and I would not have gotten through, even with 100% hard work. I know many people who love each other deeply, but unfortunately do not have that thing that makes them 'click' and in fact get them through the really tough times. If all you needed was hard work, then why cant we pick anyone off the street and agree to build a healthy, happy marriage just on hard work and committment? ... because we'd be missing that 'click', that special 'spark' that two people share that cannot be manufactured just on hard work. Its either there or its not... I also have to say that I can relate to barry’s words. I have been in a relationship for 6 years. Last year my family’s lives suffered intense tragedy and this affected my life and my relationship to a GREAT extent. And only in those darkest moments, when life puts your relationship on the rocks and tests it to the limit, do you relise how much love is NOT enough. And you become exceptionally grateful for the ‘luck’ (or grace) and the fact that you and your partner ‘click’ - COUPLED with hard work, committment and devotion - that carries your relationship through.

The hard work, committment and devotion is sometimes (sadly) just not enough. Without that inner ‘click’ or ‘luck’ or ‘grace’ - whatever you want to call it… my partner and I would not have gotten through, even with 100% hard work. I know many people who love each other deeply, but unfortunately do not have that thing that makes them ‘click’ and in fact get them through the really tough times.

If all you needed was hard work, then why cant we pick anyone off the street and agree to build a healthy, happy marriage just on hard work and committment? … because we’d be missing that ‘click’, that special ’spark’ that two people share that cannot be manufactured just on hard work. Its either there or its not…

]]> By: Michael http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-18294 Michael Fri, 30 Oct 2009 15:10:06 +0000 http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-18294 I'm with Mr Penrith on this. Still I can see where you're coming from. I've only been married three years, but I'm convinced that if you have a marriage that's 'doing well' the luck or the grace is in being the kind of people you are. The kind that can give and forgive and remember and cherish and speak up and shut up at the right moments. And the strength of character that it takes to be that way is not because of hard work so much as it's because of gentle grace. Maybe that's because of the influece of your fantasitic parents, or an early experience of a failed relationship that taught you something, or a fantastic book you read and reacted to, or the easygoing, giving personality you or your wife have been blessed with (or lucky to get). Grace might be luck to some people... but it's not dumb luck. I’m with Mr Penrith on this. Still I can see where you’re coming from. I’ve only been married three years, but I’m convinced that if you have a marriage that’s ‘doing well’ the luck or the grace is in being the kind of people you are. The kind that can give and forgive and remember and cherish and speak up and shut up at the right moments. And the strength of character that it takes to be that way is not because of hard work so much as it’s because of gentle grace. Maybe that’s because of the influece of your fantasitic parents, or an early experience of a failed relationship that taught you something, or a fantastic book you read and reacted to, or the easygoing, giving personality you or your wife have been blessed with (or lucky to get). Grace might be luck to some people… but it’s not dumb luck.

]]> By: Mark Penrith http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-17865 Mark Penrith Tue, 13 Oct 2009 15:01:17 +0000 http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-17865 Ha, 10 years in and I'm convinced there's no such thing as luck. It's all grace perched on the shoulders of hard work. Ha,

10 years in and I’m convinced there’s no such thing as luck. It’s all grace perched on the shoulders of hard work.

]]> By: Denise Hopkins http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-15833 Denise Hopkins Sat, 15 Aug 2009 14:51:13 +0000 http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-15833 Hi Barry, thanks for those wise words, that is food for thought and I must agree. 49 and still single, my friends have in fact said I have just not been lucky enough to find the right guy. And its no good thinking the next guy who comes along will be better than the last, 10 to 1 he is also a great person but with his own problems/issues. Hi Barry, thanks for those wise words, that is food for thought and I must agree. 49 and still single, my friends have in fact said I have just not been lucky enough to find the right guy. And its no good thinking the next guy who comes along will be better than the last, 10 to 1 he is also a great person but with his own problems/issues.

]]> By: Brian http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-15829 Brian Sat, 15 Aug 2009 12:58:10 +0000 http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-15829 Thanks Barry! No pearls of wisdom from this side... just that I think you have written some words that resonate deeply! Blessings to you and Elaine on your good fortune together! :) Brian Thanks Barry! No pearls of wisdom from this side… just that I think you have written some words that resonate deeply! Blessings to you and Elaine on your good fortune together! :)

Brian

]]> By: Pete Grassow http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-15824 Pete Grassow Sat, 15 Aug 2009 10:52:06 +0000 http://seethroughb.com/2009/08/03/lucky/#comment-15824 Hi Barry. Thanks for this. I have posted a response to your ideas on my blog (www.rockinthegrass.blogspot.com). Pete Hi Barry.
Thanks for this. I have posted a response to your ideas on my blog (www.rockinthegrass.blogspot.com).
Pete

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